Blog Posts
Is It Just Me, Or Am I Burning Out?
Burnout, for me, is the absolute worst thing about being autistic. It fucking sucks. Burnout, for autistics, is when we are just done with the neurotypical world. We have to mask constantly, which is unbelievably tiring. Masking is basically having to act as society wants you to act, even if you can't live up to… Continue reading Is It Just Me, Or Am I Burning Out?
I’m Not Drunk, I’m Autistic: The Origin Story
Some of you may be wondering the origin story of the name I'm Not Drunk, I'm Autistic. It goes a little something like this... Let me paint a picture. My walking style is very special. I, for some odd reason, have amazing balance when I dance or do yoga. But when I walk, I can't… Continue reading I’m Not Drunk, I’m Autistic: The Origin Story
Eye Contact Is Not A Fucking Necessary Skill!!!
An Homage To My Trees
Trees are one of my special interests. I have a very strong connection with them. They are a big part of what energizes me spiritually. They are just so majestic and strong. Everyday, I go on a walk, a bike ride, or simply knit on my front porch, all the while, interacting with all the… Continue reading An Homage To My Trees
We Need to Talk About How Therapy Can Be Traumatizing
I have had quite the long history with therapists. My parents started taking me to them when I was 4-years old to find out what was “wrong” with me. I met the traumatizing therapist in question when I was in third grade and saw her until I was 23, which in itself turned out to… Continue reading We Need to Talk About How Therapy Can Be Traumatizing
Sensory Toys
Things That Give Me Autistic Joy
We often only talk about the sucky part of autism and I wanted to share some of my very favorite things I do that fill my heart with autistic glee. Buying bulk sensory itemsJust the other day, I went in the store that sold my beloved unicorn headphones, convinced they would be out. I stared… Continue reading Things That Give Me Autistic Joy
Identity First Language
There are two different camps when it comes to how to refer to us autistics. Person first is how most professionals refer to us. It means you are a person with autism instead of an autistic person. They think it is less offensive and there are people on the spectrum who agree with them. For… Continue reading Identity First Language
Pass Me The Devil’s Lettuce
Disclaimer: I am a medical marijuana patient in a legal state. I do not encourage or recommend anyone to self-medicate. This is just my own personal experience. I am what the kids call nowadays a stoner. I absolutely love smoking weed. And it truly has been a changing factor in my life. I have horrible… Continue reading Pass Me The Devil’s Lettuce
